Comments on: It puts the lotion in the basket… http://thesecretdiariesofanextraordinarygirl.com/2009/09/it-puts-the-lotion-in-the-basket/ How to Live Life Nothing Like a Girl Who Learned her Lesson the Hard Way.... Sun, 05 Sep 2010 16:20:14 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=abc By: JJ http://thesecretdiariesofanextraordinarygirl.com/2009/09/it-puts-the-lotion-in-the-basket/comment-page-1/#comment-1186 JJ Tue, 06 Oct 2009 17:16:17 +0000 http://backdoorwhore.com/?p=904#comment-1186 I think what JackBrown is really trying to say is that he would like to get in your pants, Madison. xoxo(gossip girl) I think what JackBrown is really trying to say is that he would like to get in your pants, Madison.

xoxo(gossip girl)

]]> By: JackBrown http://thesecretdiariesofanextraordinarygirl.com/2009/09/it-puts-the-lotion-in-the-basket/comment-page-1/#comment-1185 JackBrown Mon, 05 Oct 2009 18:34:40 +0000 http://backdoorwhore.com/?p=904#comment-1185 you really attract some morons to this site. this jj guy seems to be completely out of touch with reality. must be nice to live in a little black and white bubble like that. you really attract some morons to this site. this jj guy seems to be completely out of touch with reality. must be nice to live in a little black and white bubble like that.

]]> By: Charlie Sheena http://thesecretdiariesofanextraordinarygirl.com/2009/09/it-puts-the-lotion-in-the-basket/comment-page-1/#comment-1184 Charlie Sheena Mon, 05 Oct 2009 15:26:02 +0000 http://backdoorwhore.com/?p=904#comment-1184 I think you are absolutely incorrect. But, I guess this is something that time will only tell. We will see. :) I think you are absolutely incorrect. But, I guess this is something that time will only tell. We will see. :)

]]> By: JJ http://thesecretdiariesofanextraordinarygirl.com/2009/09/it-puts-the-lotion-in-the-basket/comment-page-1/#comment-1183 JJ Sun, 04 Oct 2009 23:11:34 +0000 http://backdoorwhore.com/?p=904#comment-1183 I agree with Max. There are three categories guys fit girls into: 1) Ugly girls: those go in the dust bin. 2) Girls they want to fuck: obvious 3) Girls they want to marry: good girls they don't mind showing their Mama. When you go into Porn, you are basically closing yourself off to 99% of normal guys. So now you're basically delegated to the 1% who are into kink and who are more "open-minded". This is why most girls in porn end up marrying other guys in porn. Or you can probably marry some guy who directs porn, or has something to do with the adult industry, but I'm willing to bet 99% of guys you will meet who are not in porn, once they find out you were in porn, will be turned off, and will take you out of the "long term relationship" category. Didn't you think think about that before you got in the "industry"? I agree with Max.

There are three categories guys fit girls into:
1) Ugly girls: those go in the dust bin.
2) Girls they want to fuck: obvious
3) Girls they want to marry: good girls they don’t mind showing their Mama.

When you go into Porn, you are basically closing yourself off to 99% of normal guys. So now you’re basically delegated to the 1% who are into kink and who are more “open-minded”.

This is why most girls in porn end up marrying other guys in porn. Or you can probably marry some guy who directs porn, or has something to do with the adult industry, but I’m willing to bet 99% of guys you will meet who are not in porn, once they find out you were in porn, will be turned off, and will take you out of the “long term relationship” category.

Didn’t you think think about that before you got in the “industry”?

]]> By: napper http://thesecretdiariesofanextraordinarygirl.com/2009/09/it-puts-the-lotion-in-the-basket/comment-page-1/#comment-1182 napper Sun, 04 Oct 2009 00:52:13 +0000 http://backdoorwhore.com/?p=904#comment-1182 EVERY person (even "vanillas") has secret *interests* (i.e. Luvs the idea of going on a date with an exotic actress). Yet most vanillas & closeted kinksters / fetishists are afraid to "come out of the closet" with this side of him / herself & uses immature excuses from fear of getting serious. i honestly do NOT believe this means there's "something wrong with You," it's just insecurity with these judgmental "boys" unleashing "an emotional bukkake of despair." So You did a lil porn- BFD. So did Paris Hilton. But what makes You BETTER than Paris is You're self-supportive, not getting a filthy rich lifestyle handed on a silver platter. Plus- You were smart by getting PAID to ACT in these films. A real Gentleman would NOT treat You with such immaturity & disrespect, so Your being frustrated with "boys" is actually quite NORMAL for a "modern" young lady. Unfortunately so is Your over-reacting by saying You really didn't want to let in & "deal with another boy" in Your completely NORMAL life. Going through this normal crap with boys is to be expected. So take a chill, babe & stop taking this crap so PERSONALLY. Now You have to learn how to separate the Gentlemen from the "boys," which requires (G-d forbid) willingness to "settle" by lowering some of Your (unrealistic) "best" in standards (especially in a recession). Doing this will assist You to develop genuine friendships & relationships with Gentlemen. Huggies! napper EVERY person (even “vanillas”) has secret *interests* (i.e. Luvs the idea of going on a date with an exotic actress). Yet most vanillas & closeted kinksters / fetishists are afraid to “come out of the closet” with this side of him / herself & uses immature excuses from fear of getting serious. i honestly do NOT believe this means there’s “something wrong with You,” it’s just insecurity with these judgmental “boys” unleashing “an emotional bukkake of despair.”

So You did a lil porn- BFD. So did Paris Hilton. But what makes You BETTER than Paris is You’re self-supportive, not getting a filthy rich lifestyle handed on a silver platter. Plus- You were smart by getting PAID to ACT in these films.

A real Gentleman would NOT treat You with such immaturity & disrespect, so Your being frustrated with “boys” is actually quite NORMAL for a “modern” young lady. Unfortunately so is Your over-reacting by saying You really didn’t want to let in & “deal with another boy” in Your completely NORMAL life. Going through this normal crap with boys is to be expected.

So take a chill, babe & stop taking this crap so PERSONALLY. Now You have to learn how to separate the Gentlemen from the “boys,” which requires (G-d forbid) willingness to “settle” by lowering some of Your (unrealistic) “best” in standards (especially in a recession). Doing this will assist You to develop genuine friendships & relationships with Gentlemen.

Huggies!

napper

]]> By: Charlie Sheena http://thesecretdiariesofanextraordinarygirl.com/2009/09/it-puts-the-lotion-in-the-basket/comment-page-1/#comment-1181 Charlie Sheena Sat, 03 Oct 2009 07:00:58 +0000 http://backdoorwhore.com/?p=904#comment-1181 Max, I beg to differ. Only an insecure man would even care about something so minuscule like that. I know tons of guys who want to be with me but the problem is I do not want to settle for anything less than what is the best in my standards. Thank you. That is all. MM Max,

I beg to differ. Only an insecure man would even care about something so minuscule like that. I know tons of guys who want to be with me but the problem is I do not want to settle for anything less than what is the best in my standards. Thank you. That is all.

MM

]]> By: Max http://thesecretdiariesofanextraordinarygirl.com/2009/09/it-puts-the-lotion-in-the-basket/comment-page-1/#comment-1180 Max Thu, 01 Oct 2009 18:33:52 +0000 http://backdoorwhore.com/?p=904#comment-1180 Madison, regardless of what you may think or feel, when you entered porn, you crossed a line that will always carry a stigmatism. That "is what's wrong with you." It's nothing personal (your personality or your looks), but very few outside the "biz" want to be associated with someone in porn. Guys want to fuck pornstars, but they don't want to marry/date them. That's just how it is and you obviously see that everyday. Madison, regardless of what you may think or feel, when you entered porn, you crossed a line that will always carry a stigmatism. That “is what’s wrong with you.” It’s nothing personal (your personality or your looks), but very few outside the “biz” want to be associated with someone in porn. Guys want to fuck pornstars, but they don’t want to marry/date them. That’s just how it is and you obviously see that everyday.

]]> By: Charlie Sheena http://thesecretdiariesofanextraordinarygirl.com/2009/09/it-puts-the-lotion-in-the-basket/comment-page-1/#comment-1179 Charlie Sheena Mon, 28 Sep 2009 05:55:29 +0000 http://backdoorwhore.com/?p=904#comment-1179 I never said that! I never said that!

]]> By: Charlie Sheena http://thesecretdiariesofanextraordinarygirl.com/2009/09/it-puts-the-lotion-in-the-basket/comment-page-1/#comment-1177 Charlie Sheena Mon, 28 Sep 2009 01:48:43 +0000 http://backdoorwhore.com/?p=904#comment-1177 I know it makes me miss home. I miss coney island and I miss white castle. I miss faygo. :( I know it makes me miss home. I miss coney island and I miss white castle. I miss faygo. :(

]]> By: chicklove http://thesecretdiariesofanextraordinarygirl.com/2009/09/it-puts-the-lotion-in-the-basket/comment-page-1/#comment-1178 chicklove Mon, 28 Sep 2009 01:19:25 +0000 http://backdoorwhore.com/?p=904#comment-1178 wait, you're done making porn? wait, you’re done making porn?

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